Is It Safe To Use Coconut Oil For Masturbation?

Coconut oil is a versatile product, and some people love using it as a lube replacement for masturbation. While it does work very well, smells nice and keeps you moisturized, you need to be careful about things like allergies and infections before you use it. Today, we’re going to tackle all the questions you might have about it.

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Can you use coconut oil for masturbation, and is it safe to do so?

Every sexual activity, whether that would be sex with a partner or a private masturbation session, requires lube. 

And there are so many different lubes on the market. It can be tough to choose sometimes. 

Now, one of the most versatile and natural options is using coconut oil as a lube. 

Yes, you heard me right:

Coconut oil can be used instead of your regular lubricant and is actually one of the best lube for jerking off.

However, there are a few things you need to know before you run to the store to get a big jar of it, as it’s not as simple as using a regular water-based lube. 

Coconut oil is great as it’s cheap, you can buy it in bulk, it moisturizes your skin and let’s not forget that it smells like a tropical vacation. 

Read on to learn more about when it’s good to use coconut oil lube and when you should go with the regular lube option. 

Coconut Oil Lube For Personal Masturbation

Coconut Oil Lube For Personal Masturbation

If you’re going to be using coconut oil as a lube when you’re playing with yourself, it should be entirely safe (for other safety tips see our lube guide).

Coconut oil is natural and doesn’t contain any toxic ingredients that might be bad for your skin like some other lubes do. 

This article lists a few of them, so it’s worth checking out if you want to know what’s in your regular lube and how it affects you. 

It feels nice on the skin, and some men prefer the feeling of coconut oil over other lubes. 


When you’re using coconut lube for personal masturbation, you don’t need to keep re-applying more of it to keep it going. 

A small amount goes a long way, and I know how annoying it is when you’re using a water-based lube, and you always need to re-apply. 

If you like some anal play, coconut oil is a good lube to use, as it moisturizes the skin and prevents the very uncomfortable micro-tears in your anus. 

However, as with all things in life, there is one thing you need to be aware of: 

You have to make sure that you’re not allergic to coconut oil before putting it on your penis. 

If you don’t use coconut oil when cooking, and you’re not sure whether you’re allergic or not, apply a bit on your skin before applying it on your penis and see if there is a reaction. 

Other than that, you’re good to go. 

Coconut Oil Lube For Sex With Your Partner

Coconut Oil Lube For Sex With Your Partner

I know we’re talking about coconut oil and masturbation, but I think it’s important to note using it during a play with a partner. 

If your partner has a vagina, it might not be the best option to use coconut lube instead of a regular lube. 

There are a few reasons for that:

First of all, coconut lube doesn’t go well with latex. It can degrade it. So, if you’re using condoms, you might want to skip this one. 

Another issue is that there is not enough information on how safe coconut oil is for the vagina. 

Vaginas are very sensitive and have a unique flora, which can be easily disrupted by coconut oil. 

Here is an article that explains how it can cause infections. 

While there are some coconut lubes on the market for women, like this one called Woo More Play, it’s generally not recommended by doctors. 

So, if you were planning to introduce coconut oil to your partner, it might be better for you not to do that. 

A quick note:

If you practice anal sex with your partner, I recommend watching this video that explains everything you need to know about anal sex and coconut lubricant:

Coconut Oil Lube and Fleshlight

If you’re a fan of Fleshlights, you might be wondering if you can use coconut oil with your favorite toy and the answer to that is simple:

Big no-no. 

All fleshlights are made of a special SuperSkin material that is sensitive and works best only with water-based lubes.

Fleshlight company itself officially recommends using a water-based lube with their products, so I would not risk using coconut lube with it. 

You don’t want your favorite sex-toy to be ruined, do you?

If you’re a fleshlight user, I have two great lube options for you:

Coconut Oil Lube And Fleshlight

Coconut Oil Lube and Other Sex Toys

Coconut Oil Lube And Other Sex Toys

Now, let’s talk about using coconut oil with other sex toys:

It’s always best to read instructions on individual toys to determine if they’re safe to use with coconut oil as a lube. 

You can always find information like that on the box the toy comes with, or on the manufacturer’s website. 

If you can’t find anything, it might be worth contacting customer support, as it’s always best to be safe than sorry. 

However, as far as we know, it’s generally safe to use coconut oil as a lube with toys that are hard plastic, good quality silicone, metal, or glass. 

Avoid using coconut oil lube with toys that are TPE, PVC, rubber, latex, and cheap silicone. 


If the manufacturer states that the toy is made out of a special material that’s called anything similar to SuperSkin, CyberSkin, or anything of that sort, it might be better to go with water-based lube. 

What People Are Saying

I found a few people online who were open about sharing their experience using coconut oil for masturbation. 

Here is what people on Reddit are saying: 

It’s fine. it’s used mainstream for skin care too. Just keep in mind if you live in a warm climate, it can get moldy of not refrigerated. My bf an di were super itchy, not until the next time did we notice mold spores (ew).


My gf and I use coconut oil all the time as lube. I’ve never noticed a lot of smell from it to be honest. It works pretty great. It’s not as slippery as regular lubes though.


I use it as lube. I buy the food grade, virgin, cold-pressed type that comes in the big jars. It’s great for massages, lube, and general moisturizing. My friend also uses it as a face cleanser but it’s a bit too rich for my face skin.

If you like using it, and it hasn’t caused any problems so far, I’d keep using it. And if your roommate notices the smell say you use it as a moisturizer.


How to Use Coconut Oil As Lube For Masturbation?

There are a few things you need to know about choosing the best coconut oil to use.

It’s important to always use extra virgin cold-pressed coconut oil as this is the best quality coconut oil you can get. 

It’s a bit more expensive than other coconut oils, but it’s worth paying a little more for a better experience. 

Viva Naturals Organic Extra Virgin Coconut Oil is the one I recommend you get.

When you buy it, it’s going to be in a solid form, but don’t be scared, it’s going to warm up to your skin very fast.

I don’t recommend putting your fingers in a jar before each use. It’s best if you scoop out the amount you need with a spoon each time you use it. 

Put it in your hand, and you’ll see it starting to melt because of your body’s warmth. 

Start massaging it into your penis, and it’ll cover it all in no time. 


Cleaning up can be difficult as with all the oils, it takes more time to clean up. However, your skin will feel very moisturized and plump. 

The Hands-Down Best Lube For Masturbation

If you don’t think that coconut oil is the option for you, I have an excellent alternative for you.

Stroke 29 Personal Lubricant is one of the best lubricants for masturbation. It is a masturbation cream, not a lube per se, and has a very thick texture.

You can get it here. It’s a bit more expensive than some water-based lube, but it’s worth it as it makes play with your hand so much better.

How to use it:

When you’re ready to start, simply apply it generously over your hand and start massaging your penis. It’s going to feel good, and there won’t be any dripping mess as the cream is so thick.


It’s great for long edging sessions as you don’t have to keep re-applying it, and one application goes a long way.


So, here you have it—everything you need to know about using coconut oil as a lube alternative. 

As you can see, it’s a very versatile product and can be great for solo masturbation with your hand sessions and if you’re into anal play. 

However, you need to remember that it might not be the best option for having sex with a partner who has a vagina and if you’re using condoms as coconut oil and latex don’t go well together. 

If you’re going to use coconut oil as a lube, I recommend you go with the best quality extra virgin cold-pressed one, and my favorite one I recommend is Viva Naturals Organic Extra Virgin Coconut Oil.

Dainis Graveris

Dainis Graveris

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