5 Best Anal Training Kits For Beginners, Men & Women

Want to try anal but need to train with something smaller? We’ve got your covered with best anal training kits for beginners to advanced butt connoisseurs…

Anal Training Kits

Want to know a secret? Here it is – anal sex is glorious. It can give you an explosive orgasm like you’ve never felt in your life.

It can also be intimidating. You might curl into the fetal position at the thought of something sliding up your butt. 

Luckily for you, there are some amazing kits on the market that help you learn how to take it in the rear in a safe, pleasurable way.

Then when you’re ready, you can check out our all day butt plug guide to take it to the next level.

Top Anal Training Kits At A Glance

Mood Naughty Kit

Mood Naughty Kit


Price: $$
Material: Silicone
Insertable Length: 3”, 3.75”, 4.75”
Girth: 0.75”, 1”, 1.25”
Color: Black, Pink

CalExotics Anal Training Kit

CalExotics Anal Training Kit


Price: $
Material: Silicone
Insertable Length: 3”, 3.5”, 4.25”
Girth: 1”, 1.25”, 1.5”
Color: Black

Lovehoney Bumper Booty Bundle

Bumper Booty


Price: $$$
Material: Silicone
Insertable Length: 3” and 3.5” (Butt plugs), 3” (Prostate massager), 5” (Anal beads)
Girth: 1.2” and 1.1” (Butt plugs), 1.03” (Prostate massager), 1.27” (Anal beads)
Color: Black

The Best Anal Training Kits 

1. CalExotics Anal Training Butt Plug Kit

Best bang for the buck

Material: Silicone | Insertable Length: 3” / 3.5” / 4.25” | Girth (Diameter): 1” / 1.25” / 1.5” | Color: Black 

  • Great price
  • Flanged base
  • Progressive spacing
  • Easy to clean
  • Slight silicone smell

The CalExotic Anal Training Butt Plug Kit is perfect for beginners interested in anal plug training or those who have been out of the anal game for a while.

To stretch your sphincter you need to size up with care, which these babies do perfectly. 

The kit contains three butt plugs. The smallest one has a width of 1’’, the medium one goes to 1.25’’, while the larger one reaches 1.50’’. Nice and easy for those sensitive bootys!

The material of these anal training plugs is silicone – the safest when it comes to keeping it completely germ-free after your backdoor excursion. 

CalExotics exclusive Satin Finish also makes them soft, with a very slight give, which makes the plugs more comfortable for anal newbies.

It does have a slight silicone smell when new, but it quickly disappears. Remember to use water-based lube instead of silicone lube when playing with this butt plug training set!

This kit comes in with either a t-shaped base or a round base.

I recommend the t-shape as it is safe. It makes it less likely that you’ll end up in an episode of Bizarre Emergencies with a butt plug all the way in! 

This is even more important for experienced anal lovers, who might find the smallest plug creeping in.

However, the round base is still wide enough and has a suction cup, which might make those solo playing times extra fun as you can set it on any flat surface.

2. Doc Johnson Mood Naughty Plug Trainer Set

Best for experienced users

Material: Silicone | Insertable Length: 3” / 3.75” / 4.75” | Girth (Diameter): 0.75” / 1” / 1.25” | Color: Black, Pink

  • Soft, velvet-touch finish
  • Flexible, yet holds shape
  • Beginner-friendly size
  • Retains odors
  • May stain

Doc Johnson Mood Naughty Training Set comes with 3 plugs. They are slightly thinner and larger than the CalExotics ones. 

The plugs feature a rocker base that is long and curved, ensuring the secure and comfortable wear.

So, if you’d like to get kinky and wear them all day and night, you’re guaranteed to be safe. Plus, this base serves as a great handle to remove the plug.

The plugs are also flexible enough to move with your body, keeping you comfortable throughout your use.

Yet they remain firm enough to hold their shape and they make sure you know something’s inside you.

Overall, this is an anal training kit you can play with for an extended amount of time, in comfort, from the streets to the shower and the sheets. 

Oh yes, they’ll work well in the shower. Their soft, silicone exterior is waterproof

3. Lovehoney Bumper Booty

Best for experimentation

Material: Silicone | Insertable Length: Butt plugs -3” and 3.5”, Prostate massager – 3”, Anal Beads – 5” | Girth (Diameter): Butt plugs ~1.2” and 1.1”, Prostate massager – 1.03”, Anal Beads ~ 1.27” | Color: Black

  • Great value-for-money
  • Good variety
  • Optional vibration
  • High-quality silicone material
  • Bullet vibe is weak
  • Some toys better suited to an experienced user

The Bumper Booty Kit from Lovehoney includes 6 anal play toys: 2 butt plugs, a prostate massager, anal beads, an anal douche, and a bullet vibe. 

It is not your ordinary training kit where every toy has the same shape. Apart from training your butt to take bigger and longer toys you get a ton of variety in sensations.

The smaller butt plug is nicely tapered at both the tip and the base, so it should be suitable for most beginners.

The vibrating butt plug has a little more length for when you want to go deeper.

Some of the toys, like the anal beads, aren’t exactly beginner-friendly but are perfect for experienced users and anyone ready to try something new.

Almost all of the toys (bar the anal douche) have a T-bar base and all of them are made with body-safe, hypoallergenic silicone. 

The silicone itself is firm enough to provide a nice level of pressure but still flexible enough to be comfortable to use. 

A small extra perk in this bundle is the bullet vibe. Most of the toys can be paired up with the bullet whenever you’re in the mood for a little vibration. 

You can cycle through different preset modes to experiment with the vibration pattern and intensity.

It is not as strong as some would like, but it can always be swapped out for a more powerful bullet.

This training kit has a bit of everything and will work out much cheaper than buying each toy separately.

4. Pipedream’s Anal Fantasy Silicone Plugs

Most customizable

Material: Silicone | Insertable Length: 3” / 3.5” / 4.25” / 4.25”/ 4.75” / 5” | Girth (Diameter): 1” / 1.5” / 1.75” / 2” / 2.5” / 3” | Color: Black

  • Fully customizable
  • Body-safe materials
  • Ergonomic shape for a snug fit
  • May feel somewhat firm and hard on the butt
  • Thin necks do not provide optimal stretch

Pipedream’s Anal Fantasy butt plugs are an excellent choice for anyone looking to build a custom collection of anal training toys

Ready-made kits do not fit all body shapes and sizes, so you might not always get the experience you hoped for.

In contrast, Pipedream’s Anal Fantasy Silicone Plugs come in six different sizes: mini, small, medium, large, xl, and mega.

You can mix and match these to create your very own custom training set. 

The plugs have tapered tips for a smooth and easy entry and bulbs that provide extra stimulation. 

They are made of phthalate-free and hypoallergenic silicone, so you can wear them safely all day (or night) long.

Some plugs like Small, XL and Mega jump up 0.5” in diameter.

Ideally, you should increase the girth you take by 0.25” but with such thinner tips, you might just need to spend more time to be able to get the toy in.

To clean these little fellas, simply use some warm water and the complementary Refresh Toy Cleaner

Each package also comes with anal lube (great) and desensitizing cream (not so great). You should not use the cream.

You want to be able to feel discomfort while training your butt. This is your body’s way of signalling that you should dial it down a notch. 

The silicone is slightly on the firmer side. Therefore, it might not be ideal for people with more sensitive butts or those who prefer more pliable materials.

The plugs have somewhat thin necks, which is not optimal for stretching sphincters. 

That said, Pipedream’s Anal Fantasy Silicone Plugs are still a great option if you are looking to create a custom butt plug training set or want a bigger plug in your selection. 

When on Shevibe site, scroll down for related products to see other sizes:

5. BVibe Anal Training Kit

Upgrade pick

Material: Body Safe Silicone/ABS | Lengths: 3.9”, 5.3”, and 5.4” | Circumferences: 1”, 1.3”, and 1.6” | Weight: 88g, 35.5g, and 180g | Rechargeable?: Yes, with a Li-ion battery | Price: $150

  • Well-assembled kit for anal newbies
  • Kit boasts excellent craftsmanship
  • A bit on the expensive side

The BVibe Anal Training Kit will help anal toy beginners as they journey into the wild, exhilarating new world of anal play.

In this kit, you’re getting 3 different anal plug options in 3 different sizes. But, each one also brings its own unique range of features to the mix.

The Small Silicone Butt Plug is barely a finger-and-a-half wide. The Medium Vibrating one is about two-and-a-half fingers wide.

And the larger toy, the Large Weighted Butt Plug, is just about three fingers in width at its largest point.

You also get a lubricant applicator, an anal enema, a travel bag, and a Complete Guide To Anal Play.

The toys are flexible and shaped intuitively. 

On each toy, you’ll find that the bases are wide enough to keep the toys from slipping in too far – but they are also soft enough, and contoured in such a way, that they’ll rest against the body comfortably. 

These are certainly not cheap, hard-plastic plugs that are going to hurt once you start moving around.

They remain quite comfortable, even when fully inserted, and even when you start to move around a bit (which is something you definitely want). 

The vibrator boasts a range of vibration settings. Plus, unlike other vibrating plugs on the list, you can plug it in for charging with the included USB charger.

The vibrator motor is surprisingly quiet, and works really well for relaxing the sphincter muscles.

This is great news if you have trouble relaxing during anal play.

The weighted butt plug takes a bit of working-up-to. But the fuller feeling you get from it actually makes it one of my favorites.

But if you’re down for the price and want a kit that will last you for years to come, the BVibe Anal Training Kit offers a tremendous amount of value.

Why choose a training kit vs just buying one butt plug?

While butt plugs are a total mainstay in the world of anal play, it’s advisable to invest in a training kit to start with.

The reason is simple:

If you go out and buy one butt plug in one size, having never tried anal sex before, you’ll be at risk of hurting yourself, not to mention potentially putting you off the idea forever. And, with only one butt plug, you’ll have nothing to move on to.

Anal sex training kits are assembled with beginners in mind. So, you can go from zero to Anal Hero in nice, easy steps.

Gradually, after your ass has gotten used to accommodating one size, you can progress on to a larger and more girthy size. And so on!

What you should know before buying anal training kit?

The most important thing when buying anal training toys is to ensure they are made of body-safe materials, such as glass, silicone, or stainless steel.

Whether you are in the market for the best inflatable butt plug or just starting out with a training kit, that is a universal rule to remember.

If you are a beginner, silicone is your best bet. It has the most “give” and will bend and adjust to your butt.

In contrast, glass and steel feel much more rigid. Plus, they absorb your body’s temperature.

But if you are deadest on getting a glass anal training butt plug (we must admit, they look sleek), check out this Crystal Glass Trainer Kit by NSNovelties.

It’s also best to stay away from even the best jewel butt plug. It typically has round bases, which can chafe your butt cheek. 

As far as the shape goes, look for products with tapered tips and rounded or flanged bases. These are easy to get in — and back out.

How to use an anal training kit?

The key to using an anal training kit is to start with the smallest toy, get comfortable with it, and then gradually move up to the next size in 0.25’’-girth increments

Now, as excited as you might be to rush into the bedroom and prove yourself an instant anal play master, make sure to hit the breaks and check off these important ‘to do’ notes first!

  • Always make sure that your toys are clean and sanitized! (Health and safety first!)
  • Make sure to use PLENTY of lubricant
  • Start slow! There is no reason to rush anything
  • Remember – If it hurts, STOP!
  • A little bit of foreplay can do wonders for getting you relaxed. Being adequately aroused makes anal play not only easier, but much more enjoyable! 
  • The phrase “Don’t force it!” is not only generally good advice, but perhaps truer with anal toys than it is in most other areas of life! 

A quality anal training kit will give you everything you need to get comfortably started.

How to increase the speed of anal training?

One thing you can do is try to keep the plug in for long periods, like wearing it to run errands. Plus, you get an extra rush from the kinkiness of going out with a plug up your ass.

If you do this, walk around with it at home for a little bit, and try to get used to it before going out into the world. 

You can also increase the frequency of your anal play. Try to have some anal training fun more often if time allows for it!

Another strategy is going for toys with a wider neck. The initial stretching of your sphincter takes place when the widest part of the plug gets in.

But after that, if the neck is too thin, your sphincter is not really getting that stretched.

A toy with a wider neck might help, just make sure the base is always wider to avoid any accidents!

You can also have some extra fun and fuck yourself with the plug. As you get used to the sensation you’ll find it slips and out easily and you might be able to go up a size faster!

When to size up for a bigger butt plug?

If you’re a first-timer with an anal training kit, you might not be sure when it’s time to turn things up a notch. Luckily there are a few signs that it’s time to go bigger.

The first sign will be how easy it is to insert your current plug. If it’s a breeze, you may be due for an upgrade.

Another sign is that there’s no stretch.

Remember when you first started and it felt like there was a mountain inside you?

When that goes away, you’re too used to your current plug and probably ready for the next one.

One of the biggest signs that you’re ready to size up is that you’re just bored. Using your anal training kit feels like a chore now, not a bountiful experience of endless pleasure.

You need to go bigger to get the spark back in your play.

So, go ahead and see how a bigger toy feels!


Now you are fully equipped to make the most out of your anal training experience with an anal training kit.

Remember to listen to your body, take it slow, and avoid the “eyes bigger than the hole” dilemma. If you know what I mean. 😉

Dainis Graveris

Dainis Graveris

With over 2 year experience working in a local adult toy store Dainis has gathered quite a bit of experience about helping people find the best for their needs. He's also a top writer on Quora (7M views, 2.3K followers) and has written over 70+ guides on SexualAlpha. Read More

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